DEE lays out a selection of beautiful ivory thongs, suspenders and lace bras on the bed she shares with her fiancé Will.
“I’m picking out the lingerie that I’m going to be wearing for our wedding night,” she says, running her hands over the delicate material.
“It’s absolutely gorgeous,” she adds, smiling.
Will and Dee live in a quaint, conservative village in Queensland, Australia, and work on Dee’s parents’ farm.
Dee takes care of the horses, while Will manages their 600 cattle.
But there’s something unconventional about Dee and Will’s upcoming wedding night, because it’s not just the bride and groom who are invited into the newly-weds’ marital bed.
“It’s obviously going to be a massive swingers party. I’m so excited,” says Dee.
She first met Will a few years ago on Tinder.
“It was an instant attraction,” Dee says.
Around a year into their relationship they came up with a plan to keep their sex life active and decided to try swinging.
“When we first got together we made a list of all the things we wanted to try,” Will says.
“I signed us up to a website and I surprised Dee one night with a rendezvous.”
[bc_video account_id=”5067014667001″ application_id=”” aspect_ratio=”16:9″ autoplay=”” caption=”I was a naive nursery worker who hadn’t orgasmed for 7 years – then the couple I babysat for took me to a swingers’ club” embed=”in-page” experience_id=”” height=”100%” language_detection=”” max_height=”360px” max_width=”640px” min_width=”0px” mute=”” padding_top=”56%” picture_in_picture=”” player_id=”default” playlist_id=”” playsinline=”” sizing=”responsive” video_id=”6368765278112″ video_ids=”” width=”640px”]Since then, they’ve entertained regularly at home.
Mood lights are strung up around a double bed, with wrist restraints attached to the ceiling.
They’ve created some ‘sexy playlists’, and have even fitted a sex swing in their kitchen.
“Since we’ve been together we’ve slept with over 100 people,” admits Will.
They also ventured into the world of OnlyFans a year ago, and enjoy being adult content creators.
“We can make a lot of money with it,” explains Will.
“We did make the agreement that if at any point it was too much or one of us was unhappy, then that would be it.”
“Basically our only boundaries are that we must be in the same room whenever we’re playing or filming,” Dee adds.
Bringing swinging into their wedding came about after Will proposed and they began planning their nuptials, and they both agreed they wanted to have some fun on their wedding night.
“For our wedding we’ve decided to have a swingers party afterwards because a lot of our friends who will attend will be swingers,” says Will.
Dee agrees and jokes, “Our vanilla friends can go home and pass out and the kinky ones will keep on playing.”
Not everyone is so accepting of their liberal relationship, though.
The couple have faced their fair share of criticism, both in the small town where they live and also online.
“Probably the biggest doubts that people have raised come from a place of wanting to protect us and to make sure what we’re doing isn’t going to cost us our relationship at some point down the line,” says Dee.
“There are a lot of people in the swinging community that are in it for the wrong reasons and it can be very toxic.”
[quote credit=”Will”]There’s nothing worse than going home and having that 10-minute little quickie before bed[/quote]Will adds, “The worst judgement you get, well, personally for me as the male in a swinging relationship, is that I get put into the ‘I’m a sexual predator’ or ‘I just want to have sex with every woman’ type of thing.
“But if anyone judges our relationship we just say, look this works for us, we have fun, we’re happy, we’re healthy. We’re enjoying life.”
But while the couple claim they are simply enjoying themselves, they understand that not everyone will understand their choices in the bedroom.
And it seems sharing their hobby with others, helping beginners and normalising attitudes towards swinging is what motivates the couple – and something they have no plans on stopping any time soon.
“We get judgement from everyone,” Will says.
“But we also get people coming to us and asking us, how we do it, how do you bring it up to your partner etc.
“I have always believed sex is very important in a relationship.
“There’s nothing worse than going home and having that 10-minute little quickie before bed.”
