YOUR wedding day should be one of the happiest days of your life.
However, one bride realised she’d made a terrible mistake 70 seconds after she tied the knot after her new husband said two shocking words.
TikTok user @noiwontthanks explained how her wedding day was “ruined”, in a viral clip which has racked up over 150,000 likes.
She shared: “My husband ruined our wedding day, and this story has haunted me for like 11 years. I just want to tell it.
“I never wanted a big wedding. I never wanted people looking at me as I walked down the aisle or anything like that. So we just went to the magistrate.
“We went to the magistrate, and everything was good.
“I was feeling good and very happy. We had been married about 60 seconds when the judge said, ‘I love doing these ceremonies, and it would just make me so happy if you guys came back to see me in 10 years and let me know that everything is good.’”
When the judge said that, the bride replied that they would love to do that, and jokingly added: “Hopefully, I fit in the same dress.”
She shared how it was her husband’s response which made her feel like she had made a mistake in marrying him just seconds into their marriage.
The TikToker continued: “That’s like a running joke—you hope you can still fit into your wedding dress.
“My husband of about 70 seconds did not miss a beat and said, ‘Or smaller.’.”
The bride was shocked that her husband would imply that she could lose some weight, and said: “Talk about fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.
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“I didn’t quite realise in that second how bad it was.
“I was just staring at his face, looking for context clues. He wasn’t laughing. My heart broke.
“I looked at the judge—the magistrate—and he was floored.
“He said, ‘Son, you just got married.’
“That’s when I realised, ‘Oh, I’m not crazy. My intuition is correct. This is bad.’”
[quote credit=”TikTok user @noiwontthanks”]My husband ruined our wedding day, and this story has haunted me for like 11 years. I just want to tell it.[/quote]She added that she stayed with him for a decade, before her husband asked for a divorce.
The woman stated: “I stayed, but that’s a whole other video I’m not going to make.
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“Ironically, 10 years later—like that exact week—was when my husband said he wanted a divorce or whatever.”
In her video, she said that there’s a “staggering” amount of comments she has seen on TikTok videos about women realising on their wedding day that they made a mistake.
[quote credit=”TikTok user @noiwontthanks”]He convinced me that I was crazy and dramatic, and I’m none of those things, actually. He hated my guts from the beginning.[/quote]She continued: “We just need to maybe normalise this a little bit. This is my attempt at normalising it, and it’s therapeutic for me.”
Many people were quick to offer support to the woman, with one saying: “I cried in the bathroom before walking down the aisle. Shouldn’t have done it. Divorcing now after 16 years.”
Another added: “I knew the day of my wedding I was making a mistake and it took me 17 years to leave.”