A MOTHER has revealed that she saw her husband in a whole new light on New Year’s Eve when he was caught getting frisky with someone else.
But not only did this woman’s husband cheat on her, but he did it with her close friend.
And if that wasn’t bad enough, it happened at their own party, in their kitchen.
Clearly distraught, the anonymous woman took to social media to share an insight into her situation, leaving many stunned.
Posting on Mumsnet on a Relationships forum, the woman wrote under the username @mum2be2013 and titled her post ‘My husband cheated on me with my friend at Christmas’.
She then explained: “My husband cheated on me with someone who I thought was a close friend at a New Year’s Eve party at our home.
“I only found out as her husband caught them in the act in the kitchen.
“I asked him to move out to give me time to think when it happened but he refused. He says it was a drunken mistake.”
But the mum-of-two explained that now she feels trapped and doesn’t know what to do.
She continued: “We’ve been together 20 years and have two small children (three and six).
“I’m a stay at home mum and so I’m completely dependent on him financially at the moment and I have no where I could go to to get away (with the children of course). So I feel trapped with him.”
The mother explained that she now finds herself constantly crying and isn’t sure how she will get over her heartbreak.
[bc_video account_id=”5067014667001″ application_id=”” aspect_ratio=”16:9″ autoplay=”” caption=”Confession: Cheating with My Husband’s Boss ” embed=”in-page” experience_id=”” height=”100%” language_detection=”” max_height=”360px” max_width=”640px” min_width=”0px” mute=”” padding_top=”56%” picture_in_picture=”” player_id=”default” playlist_id=”” playsinline=”” sizing=”responsive” video_id=”6362169416112″ video_ids=”” width=”640px”]She confessed: “I can manage to be polite to him and pretend everything is fine in front of the children but I can’t imagine ever being intimate with him again as I feel so betrayed.
“When the children are both out (my little one has nursery three mornings) I find myself just crying.
“I never thought my husband would cheat on me and now I can’t imagine getting over this and being a family again.”
Mumsnet users react
Mumsnet users were left open-mouthed by the woman’s confession and quickly flocked to the comments to share their advice and guidance, with many suggesting she see a solicitor and leave her marriage for good.
One person said: “So sorry this has happened to you.
“I would suggest you get some financial information regarding benefits and start looking for a part time job so you’re less dependent on him.”
[quote credit=”Reddit user”]If the trust has gone, the marriage is over[/quote]Another added: “I’m sorry, what a horrible thing he’s done to you. And some friend she is.
“Please go and see a solicitor and find out your legal position. It may not be as grim as you think.”
A third commented: “There’s really no coming back from this and you deserve better. Copping off with your friend in YOUR kitchen! No. No no no. It’s over. If he can do that then he’s capable of anything!
“What’s the finances like? Are there savings? Equity in the house? Take back power. Go see a solicitor (some do a free half hour) and find out what you’ll be entitled to.”
Whilst someone else chimed in: “Doubt it’s the first time he’s cheated on you. If the trust has gone, the marriage is over.”