Ian discovers Sarah’s sexy secret but he wishes he hadn’t

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Man in blue shirt with thought bubbles saying "Tracy changes her men more often than I change my socks" and "She's a bad influence on my Sarah". Continues tomorrow.

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DEIDRE SAYS: YOU have been laughing at Ian’s expense while enjoying a liaison with your friend.

I’m sure you’ve got swept up in the excitement of the fling and now the reality will be crashing down around you.

Stop seeing Tracy while you sort out your relationship with Ian – he deserves that at the very least.

Your cavalier behaviour suggests you don’t really value what you have with him.

In this case it would be far better for both of you to admit you want something different and give him the chance to heal and find someone who will cherish him.

I’m sending you my support pack Ending A Relationship to help you.

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