Tim gets worried when his girlfriend says she wants more in bed

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MORE men than ever feel insecure about the size of their manhood as a result of the proliferation of porn, which offers an unrealistic expectation of what men’s bodies look like.

Feeling insecure led you to jump to conclusions and in turn you missed the opportunity to discuss Mel’s concern – that you weren’t able to commit, not that you weren’t able to satisfy her in bed.

A good sexual relationship is founded on good communication, and has next to nothing to do with how large you are.

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