I was on the brink of death with litre of blood in my tummy after sex – if it can happen to me it can happen to anyone

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A WOMAN left “on the brink of death” after a litre of blood was found in her tummy has urged others to “advocate for your body”.

In October 2024, Daisy Wilson, 22, started to experience a sharp, “pinching” pain towards her lower ribs after having sex with her boyfriend of two years, Alex Marsh, 24.

A woman with a man, then in a hospital bed with an IV.
Daisy Wilson experienced sharp, “pinching” pain towards her lower ribs after having sex
Woman in hospital bed with blood stains on pillow.
Daisy went to the toilet but the pain became “agonising”, she collapsed, and hit her head on the shower
Woman's abdomen showing surgical incisions and bruising.
CT scans, X-Rays and tests discovered Daisy was suffering with internal bleeding

Thinking she might be experiencing period cramps, Daisy went to the toilet but the pain became “agonising”.

When she stood up, she fainted and collapsed, hitting and cutting her head on the shower before her boyfriend rushed in.

Experiencing severe abdominal pains which came in waves, Daisy and Alex went to the A&E department at the John Radcliffe Hospital and after several hours of CT scans, X-Rays and tests, it was discovered Daisy was suffering with internal bleeding where a litre and a half of blood was sitting in her belly.

She was prepped for keyhole surgery in order for doctors to investigate and when she awoke the next day, Daisy was informed a cyst on her right ovary had ruptured and had to be stitched up during the operation.

An ovarian cyst is a fluid-filled sac that develops on an ovary.

They’re considered very common and most the time don’t cause any symptoms.

But in some cases, a cyst can burst open, causing severe pain and bleeding inside the pelvis.

After spending a few days recovering, Daisy decided to share her experience on TikTok to raise awareness where one of her videos gained over one million views – and she has noticed thousands of women flocking to the comment section to say they have experienced similar, life-threatening situations.

“The morning it all happened I did a heavy gym session, I went and had a great day at work… it just shocked me that you can be so normal and then on the brink of death, saying goodbye to my boyfriend,” Daisy, a developmental scientist based in Oxford, told PA Real Life.

“If it could happen to me, it could happen to anyone.

“I was trying to think of anything (the pain) could be, period cramps or constipation, but you know your body the best – advocate for your body.”

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Daisy said she experienced “no symptoms” or any indication a cyst on her ovary could be about to burst.

“I would have never suspected anything,” she said.

On October 25 2024, Daisy returned home from work to her home whom she shares with her boyfriend. The couple had sex.

“Immediately afterwards, I had this really weird stabbing pain in the side of my belly, just where your last rib ends,” she said.

“It was a pinching, stabbing pain, it caught me off-guard, it was agonising.”

Daisy initially assumed she was experiencing period cramps and went to the toilet, but she found it difficult to walk due to pain in her legs.

[quote credit=”Daisy Wilson “]It was a pinching, stabbing pain, it caught me off-guard, it was agonising[/quote]

“I thought I was constipated, I was in so much pain and sitting on the toilet,” she said.

“I started getting really light-headed, really dizzy, and really hot.”

When she stood up to leave the bathroom, Daisy said she fainted and collapsed, cutting her head on the glass pane on her shower.

Thankfully her boyfriend rushed in straight away and the pair called 111, before they were asked to attend an appointment at the John Radcliffe Hospital in Oxford to see a doctor.

Once there, Daisy spent several hours undergoing external exams, X-Rays, blood tests and blood pressure tests – but doctors were baffled as to what could be causing her symptoms.

She was given morphine to numb the pain and the cut on her head was attended to, but Daisy still struggled with the intense feelings in her abdomen.

[quote credit=”Daisy Wilson “]I was gripping onto my boyfriend’s arm, I could have drawn blood[/quote]

She said: “I kept saying ‘my belly is in pain’ and one doctor started pressing on it to examine it – and I started screaming.

“I was gripping onto my boyfriend’s arm, I could have drawn blood.

“I was so focused on not feeling pain, I didn’t think about anything else.

“The doctor looked bewildered, I don’t think he’s ever seen somebody scream in pain like that.”

After being taken to a specialist assessment unit at the hospital, it was found Daisy’s blood pressure was very low and doctors thought she could be suffering with internal bleeding.

She was taken for a CT scan which revealed a litre-and-a-half pool of blood sitting in her tummy.

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Scans revealed a litre-and-a-half of blood sitting in Daisy’s stomach
Photo of a blood collection bag filled with blood, connected to a patient's abdomen via a tube.
A cyst on her right ovary had haemorrhaged
Medical images showing laparoscopic surgery.
Surgery photos show what they found inside her body

“They didn’t know what caused it, they didn’t know why it was bleeding, but they could see a massive blob in my belly,” Daisy said, adding she was prepared for keyhole surgery so doctors could investigate.

When Daisy awoke the following day, she was told they had confirmed one cyst on her right ovary had haemorrhaged and was later stitched up during the operation.

“I’ve got pictures of the surgery photos of what they found inside my body,” she said.

Daisy decided to share her experience on TikTok to raise awareness, where her most popular video on the topic amassed over one million views, but she was shocked to see many others on the platform expressing they had been in similar, life-threatening situations due to ovarian cysts.

“Since sharing that video, I would say it’s gone semi-viral,” she said.

“I’ve got hundreds, even thousands, of women saying that this has happened to them before.

[quote credit=”Daisy Wilson “]I should have known there was something wrong, I should have taken myself more seriously[/quote]

“Every single comment has been unique and it blows my mind there is such little awareness over this because it’s so different for everyone.”

Daisy hopes others will be encouraged to speak up and seek treatment if they feel something is wrong.

“(The hospital) were doing their best and I’m really thankful for them but I should have known there was something wrong, I should have taken myself more seriously,” she said.

“If you have a suspicion that there is something up with your belly or your ovaries, agonising pain is not normal, and you should never delay getting treatment.”

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AN ovarian cyst usually only causes symptoms if it splits (ruptures), is very large or twists and then blocks the blood supply to the ovaries.

If this happens you may experience:

  • pelvic pain – this can range from a dull, heavy sensation to a sudden, severe and sharp pain
  • pain during sex
  • difficulty emptying your bowels
  • a frequent need to urinate
  • heavy periods, irregular periods or lighter periods than normal
  • bloating and a swollen tummy
  • feeling very full after only eating a little
  • difficulty getting pregnant – although fertility is usually unaffected by ovarian cysts

See a GP if you have symptoms of an ovarian cyst.

Source: NHS

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A woman with a man, then in a hospital bed with an IV.
Daisy shared her story on TikTok and says hundreds, even thousands, of women have said this has happened to them before
A woman in a hospital gown sits in a hospital bed with a man, drinking a Starbucks iced coffee.
Daisy hopes others will be encouraged to speak up and seek treatment if they feel something is wrong

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