A MAN has revealed that he is addicted to cheating on his wife with his boss.
Not only does the 42-year-old married man have email codes with his colleague, but they also rip each other’s clothes off and have sex in the office.
Unsure on what to do, the man, who is sleeping with his 38-year-old female boss, who is also married, took to social media to share all, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/confession thread, the anonymous man, who writes under the username @badphilander, titled his post ‘I have been banging my boss for months at work’.
He then gave some context to the situation and explained: “I transferred to this office a little more than two years ago.
“We got along very well from the start, had a little flirtatious talk, eye contact, etc but nothing serious.
“We started going for coffee every couple days or so and it became a habit.
“Then we started talking more about personal lives and eventually were relating all kinds of personal stuff – marriages, kids, frustrations.”
But things quickly went to the next level when his boss asked him to go to her office at the end of the day.
He added: “I go in and she says, ‘can you close the door, please’. I’m thinking ‘uh-oh, what did I do’.
“Then she starts [talking] about she’s been thinking about something for weeks, asks me not to be offended, but she’s been thinking more and more about me and is very attracted to me and is there any chance I feel the same way?
“She’s extremely embarrassed and nervous and I am somewhat shocked, but I walk closer – I was thinking I would maybe pat her on the shoulder or hand and tell her to calm down, it’s no big deal.
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He confessed: “We did it on the couch in her office right then and there.
“We have now been doing this once or twice a week, always in her office (I don’t have one) – except for once in a server room – and either early in the morning or late in the day.
“One or the other of us will email a code phrase asking if it’s doable.”
[quote credit=”Reddit poster”]Both of us feel awful about it. But we also apparently are addicted[/quote]Whilst the pair know what they are doing is wrong, they are both ‘addicted’ to the ‘amazing sex’.
He admitted: “We are constantly saying we should stop, that each time will be the last.
“Both of us feel awful about it. But we also apparently are addicted.
“And I must also confess that the sex is amazing. A lot of it has to do with the illicit nature of it and the location I’m sure.
“I know it has to end and I know it’s very wrong but I can’t seem to help myself.
“She is very attractive and very uninhibited, not to mention a good boss in other (strictly business) ways. I feel lost.”
Reddit users react
Reddit users were left stunned by the man’s confession and eagerly flocked to the comments to share their thoughts.
One person said: “This is an HR nightmare.”
[quote credit=”Reddit user “]Come clean with your wife. She probably already knows/suspects[/quote]Another added: “Hope you have other job options out there because you’ll be looking for them soon. Your poor wife.”
A third commented: “Man up and cut it out. You’re married, you have kids, and you have commitments you made to those things before this.
“If you can’t deal with those commitments then it’s time to get out. There is NO WAY this ends well -you get that, right?”
Whilst someone else advised: “Come clean with your wife. She probably already knows/suspects. Tell her you love her, and you’re sorry.”