A WOMAN has revealed that at almost 30, she is a virgin by choice, and plans to give herself “as a gift” to her future husband.
Marina, 28, has revealed that she decided to save herself for marriage when she was a teenager, and is now on the hunt for “the one.”
Taking to TikTok, Marina revealed that she did not think that she would still be a virgin at this age, and had assumed that she would have found her husband by now.
“I decided to wait when I was a teenager because I was a Christian, and got told this is the best thing for your protection,” she said.
Initially, Marina has been against the idea of saving herself for marriage, as her friends and everyone at school was encouraging her to do the opposite.
However, she said that as she got older, she realised it was the “best decision” for her, and said that it saved her a lot of heartache.
Marina said that a girl in school told her that no one would ever wait for her, and admitted that she has found this to be the case so far, when dating.
“I’ve not met the one yet but I’m still waiting,” she said.
Marina said that the main reason she is waiting before marriage is that she wants to give herself “as a gift” to her future husband.
“He’s the only one that I’m going to be intimate with,” she said.
Marina’s (@thegypsyvigin) video has likely left many people impressed, as it has racked up over 62,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts on her unconventional attitude to sex.
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Marina responded: “Yes, I totally get this.
“In recent years I have found that and so now I’m working on removing the pressure and dating and seeing where things go.”
A second person said: “Do you ever feel like you want to go through the emotions of life such as heart break?”
Marina responded: “I have been through that.
“Just not in this exact certain situation.”
A third person added: “I wish I had met a friend doing this when I was also doing the same!
“I waited until I met the one too, and I finally met him last year, but for 29 years I felt so isolated.”